Know Your Own Value!

"If you offer your best to the world, expect to get the very best back!" ~Oprah

Getting new clients can sometimes take a lot of effort...if you're into that kind of thing. Which thing, you might ask? The 'getting new clients' thing or the 'efforting' thing?~Article by Xina Sy


I recently learned a very tough & expensive lesson! As women, & as humans, we often get caught up in the "Human Doing" trap, versus, just "Being!" For myself, I know I am out of alignment when I am chasing, begging, running, pushing, & simply trying too hard to get what is ALREADY MINE! We have been given, by Divine Birthright & as Co-Creators, EVERYTHING we need! No one has our stuff! We don't have to chase money, beg for opportunities, or rely on ANYTHING outside of ourselves to have what we want! When we relax & allow, ALL things come to us in Divine timing! When we KNOW our value & that we are ENOUGH, we do not have to try so hard.

When you know that what you have to offer is good & has value, there is no need for a lot  of effort. When you know that you are putting your best foot forward, that your message is clear & concise, that you've branded well, that you are creating & presenting a strong, solid, & consistent image of who you are & what you have to offer, then its time to relax, enjoy, & allow. Living our life's work is about creating a flow & creating a flow is about creating with ease.

Now, I am not saying that there is nothing that you need to do! But, I am saying that you should be led in your doing. How are we led? We all have an internal guidance system; some call it intuition, some call it Spirit, some refer to it as their "gut!" Sometimes messages come through loud & clear, other times those messages are muddled by our fears, our doubts, & our experiences from the past. Sometimes we follow that guidance & we simply KNOW the right thing to do. Sometimes we ignore that small, quiet whisper & we end up with regrets & a feeling of failure. We look back on experiences & think, "Damn, I shoulda listened to my gut!"


But, we cannot live by shoulda, coulda, wouldas, when there is only the NOW! Right now we can make better choices! Right now we can begin to know & trust our gut better! Right now we can relax & allow & believe & trust & value ourselves enough so that we don't find ourselves running around beggin' for a breakthrough! When we know better...we must then do better!


So, how do we value our own worth & our own knowing enough to begin to allow our good to flow to us more easily?

• First, you STOP & BE STILL! When I am frantic, my big brother, Larry says & I quote, "Sit down & shut the F&%# up!" It is colorful, but it gets my attention. WE have to be willing to get centered to be able to hear what our next move should be.
• Surround yourself with good folks that love & value you already! Birds of a feather flock together! Your inner circle should be filled with people that understand who you are & what your are trying to accomplish.
• Trust your gut! It knows what's best. When in doubt, call out for help! It will come.
• Keep it moving. Even when you feel you made a left turn (if it ain't right, then its probably left), forgive yourself & gently get back on track!
• Relax & Allow your good to flow to you! Stop trying to hard! "Your gifts will make room for you!" Trust & believe that!

If you need some help with your vision, please feel free to reach out to me at emergingnow@gmail.com. We know the value of a vision & we believe in your worthiness...

With Much Love & Respect!

Xinavana